"I" is something which is very unique to ME . I to me is totally and totally me.... not any one else...
there might be N number of people in this whole world. But I to me is only me.
I hate me being compared to any X Y Z existing on this planet.
Right from the time i get out of my bed till i get back to sleep, there are hell a lot of thing that do. But i dont do every thing to compete with someone. I dont do every thing to imitate someone.
Please dont compare with someone.
Two things can be compared only when every minute thing about those two are same.There shall be at-least ONE damn thing that is unique in me.So why the hell does everyone compare me with some other person..!!..??
This is a question that i have been asking myself right from the day my parents started to compare how i "crawl" then how i started to walk....speak....eat.... and finally
HOW I DO IN MY ACADEMICS......
but today i came to a conclusion the that answer to my question is a question that everyone asks themself and everyone keeps searching for the answer and get frustrated at times!!!!
I know comparison has become a part of our life.... but it bugs the inner feelings of yours....
why dont people take things as they are???
why do we start comparing every small thing in our life??
isnt it stupid.....crazy....weird???
my mom and dad compare my intelligence and personality development... but just because there is someone with a greater amount of so called I Q, i'm not a fool rite.....
my sister says brothers of their friends get what ever their sisters ask for.....what the hell does i have to do with them.....
recently one of my dear friend who mean a lot to me, says other friends shes having, meet her more frequently.....and i dont....
WTF
its really irritating....
bloody hell.....i have been like this for ages now.....just because some other friend meet you every day i cant change myself rite...if it was her wish then iwould have been on top of the world....but then when it is comparision...it so hurting
my lecturers compare with the friend they find me most with....if i get better marks my friend gets frustrated.....and if he manages to do well i get frustrated.....
every time my grandfather reads about a so called wonder kid the next thing that is on his mind is comparison....
there is a chat friend of mine.... i just keep chating with him once a while.....believe me i dont even know his face.... he says i dont chat as good as his other chat friends( he doesnt know the face of those other friends of his aswell) ....
cant digest the fact that very dear people really compare me with some X Y Z..... i hate this......
i can never compare two people in my life man.... its holy shit comparing two different people doesnt make any sence....!!!!
TO COMPARE TWO THINGS YOU NEED TO MEASURE THEM WITH VARIOUS INSTRUMENTS.... BUT LIFE IS NOT A CALCULATION.... IT ISNT HAVING A QUANTITY..... THERE ARE NO INSTRUMENTS DEVELOPED YET TO MEASURE CREDIBILITY OF ONES LIFE ....
remember we need scale....bar graph.....pie chart to compare.....
please stop comparing things ..... every thing has its own quality ( both the ones u like and dislike)
dont calculate.....
make life simpler
keep smiling!!!!
be happy
sakethursforever :)